The Titus 2 Woman
A Call to Legacy and Discipleship Study
"That the aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things…"
—Titus 2:3 (KJV)
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In a world where women are often told to chase youth or stay silent as they age, God offers a higher calling. In Titus 2, Paul instructs older women to step into spiritual leadership, guiding the next generation not through titles or platforms but through wisdom, humility, and example.
This is not a side note in Scripture—it's a divine commission. It is not only a permission to speak truth into the lives of younger women, but also a responsibility to do so with grace and conviction.
1. Her Character: Holy in Conduct
“That they be in behaviour as becometh holiness…”
—Titus 2:3a
The Titus 2 woman begins with her private life. She lives with reverence, choosing her words and actions to honor God, whether anyone is watching or not. She is not flawless, but she is faithful. Her behavior reflects the inner work of the Spirit—self-controlled, honest, prayerful, and gentle.
Supporting Scripture:
- 1 Peter 1:15 — "Be ye holy in all manner of conversation."
- Proverbs 31:26 — "She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness."
2. Her Tongue: Truthful and Kind
“Not false accusers…”
—Titus 2:3b
Gossip, slander, and divisive talk have no place in the life of a godly woman. The Titus 2 woman guards her tongue—not just to avoid sin, but to protect the unity of the Body. Her words bring healing, not harm: instruction, not accusation.
Supporting Scripture:
- Proverbs 16:24 — "Pleasant words are as a honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones."
- Ephesians 4:29 — "Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth…"
3. Her Habits: Temperate and Disciplined
“…not given to much wine…”
—Titus 2:3c
This phrase extends beyond just drinking—it's about discipline and self-control in all aspects of life. The Titus 2 woman resists overindulgence. She doesn't seek escape or entertainment to dull her Spirit. She remains alert, sober-minded, and grounded.
Supporting Scripture:
- 1 Corinthians 6:12 — "All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient…"
- Galatians 5:22-23 — "The fruit of the Spirit is… temperance."
4. Her Influence: A Teacher of Good Things
“…teachers of good things…”
—Titus 2:3d
She is called to pass down what she has learned, not to hoard it. Her kitchen table becomes a pulpit. Her phone calls become discipleship moments. She doesn't have to preach—she pours. She mentors, listens, encourages, corrects, and models Christ.
She is not merely a mentor—she is a living legacy.
Supporting Scripture:
- Psalm 145:4 — "One generation shall praise thy works to another…"
- 2 Timothy 2:2 — "The things that thou hast heard of me… commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also."
5. Her Mission: Shaping the Next Generation
“That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children…”
—Titus 2:4
The wisdom of a woman over 50 is desperately needed in today's church. Young women long for guidance in marriage, motherhood, homemaking, modesty, emotional balance, and biblical womanhood. The Titus 2 woman is called to teach, not with criticism, but compassion.
Supporting Scripture:
- Isaiah 58:12 — "Thou shalt raise the foundations of many generations…"
- Proverbs 22:6 — "Train up a child in the way he should go…"
6. Her Example: Living Sound Doctrine
“That the word of God be not blasphemed.”
—Titus 2:5
Ultimately, the Titus 2 woman's influence protects the integrity of the Gospel. Her life reflects the truth she teaches. She doesn't draw attention to herself—she points younger women to Christ through faithfulness, consistency, and love.
Closing Encouragement
This season of life is not about slowing down—it's about pouring out with purpose. Your experience, your battles, your lessons learned—all of it is a gift meant to be shared. You are not invisible in God's kingdom. You are essential.
You are a voice of wisdom.
A vessel of truth.
A living example of God's faithfulness across decades.